“Exposure to pornography among young children may be disturbing or upsetting. It helps to sustain young people’s adherence to sexist and unhealthy notions of sex and relationships. And, especially among boys and young men who are frequent consumers of pornography, including of more violent materials, consumption intensifies attitudes supportive of sexual coercion and increases their likelihood of perpetrating assault. Pornography is a poor, and indeed dangerous, sex educator.”
These are the conclusions contained in a review, The Harms of Pornography Exposure Among Children and Young People, written by Michael Flood, Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society, La Trobe University, Australia.
The review looks at several ways in which young people are affected by either intended or accidental exposure to pornography. It seems that the younger the child is, the more likely they are to be emotionally disturbed by the images they see.
As children get older, their exposure shapes their attitudes and expectations about sexual encounters and can lead to sexist and objectifying understandings of what a relationship is. This is especially so among teenage boys who due to an early exposure of pornography may go on to see violence in relationships as the norm, which in turn could encourage their participation in sexual abuse.
Emotional and Psychological Harms Associated with Premature or Inadvertent Exposure
Many young people are shocked or disturbed by premature or inadvertent encounters with pornography. Many are at an age or developmental level where they are unaware of, inexperienced in, or uninterested in sexual activities.
The review looks at a US survey where 10% of young people aged 10 to 17 described themselves as very or extremely upset by unwanted exposure to pornography. A similar survey in Australia found that 53% of young people aged 11 to 17 had experienced something on the Internet that they thought was offensive or disgusting. Their feelings were of being ‘sick’, ‘shocked’, ‘embarrassed’, ‘repulsed’ and ‘upset’.
The review also noted that girls were more likely than boys to be troubled by pornography. In one study, 35% of girls but only 6% of boys reported that they were very upset by the images.
Today the internet opens up the world of hardcore pornography to children; images that they would not have been able to access before. It is very easy for children to accidently view these images. This can lead to great distress and misconceptions about what is shared between 2 consenting adults in an intimate relationship.
The survey confirms that videos and Internet pornography often depict sexual practices which are outside common cultural norms or even criminal, including anal intercourse, multiple partners, bondage and sadomasochism, transsexual sex, urination or defecation, bestiality and rape. Minors do encounter such material.
Sexist, Sexually Objectifying and Inappropriately Sexualised Attitudes and Behaviours
The review verified that because much to today’s pornography focuses on female bodies, is sexist, degrades women and often shows sex as acts of aggression rather than intimacy it can “encourage girls and young women to see themselves primarily in sexual terms, to equate their worth and appeal with narrow standards of physical attractiveness, and to see themselves as sexual objects—to focus on others’ sexual interest in and judgment of them rather than their own desires and interests”.
Attitudes and Behaviours related to Sexual Violence Perpetration and Victimisation
The review acknowledged that “perhaps the most troubling impact of pornography on children and young people is its influence on sexual violence”. Studies have found that exposing young men to sexually violent material increases their acceptance of rape myths and erodes their empathy for victims of violence.
In a study of Canadian teenagers there was a correlation between boys’ frequent consumption of pornography and their agreement with the idea that it is acceptable to hold a girl down and force her to have sex.
Conclusion
Pornography is a poor sex educator. Most pornography is too explicit for younger children; most shows sex in unrealistic ways and neglects intimacy and romance; most pornography is sexist; and some is based on and eroticises violence.
Writer Helen Splarn. Editor Dr Ramesh Manocha.
Source: Child Abuse Review Vol. 18: 384–400 (2009) Published online 2 November 2009 in Wiley InterScience Copyright © 2009 John Wiley & Sons, Ltd.
I find very important studies, the results reveal how great are the dangers of pornography generally speaking and for children and young adults in particular, hence they are still in the process of shaping their ideas and conceptions about sex!
Thanks for this article,
on the one hand boys are educated by the porn industry and on the other girls are given messages by musician and tv etc that their worth in live is determined by how sexually appealing they are. Put the 2 together and the result is emotional distress and confusion.
something needs to change